December 27, 2019 - Bob went to pay our personal property and real estate taxes, we talked before he went. We decided to pay with our credit card. He left and about 10 minutes later I got a call from him, panicked, he said he thinks he lost the checking account book. I told him he did not because he didn't have it. I said you were paying by credit card. He was really upset. He said they wouldn't accept credit card except online. I said come home or sit in the car for a few minutes till you calm down. He said I am coming home. When he came home he was upset but did not want to take a pill. After a while he calmed down and worked in the basement on his bird house and listened to his old records.
March 26, 2016 - This was the first punch in the stomach for me. I call "punch in the stomach" a new realization or something that happens that makes me face reality when I have been trying to ignore it. Here is mine, it was Saturday before Easter and I just made my grandkids 5 Easter baskets and gave them to Bob to hide in the basement like he has always done. The next morning when the kids arrived, they asked if PawPaw had hidden the baskets and did he hide them in hard places to find. I said lets ask him, when we asked PawPaw that question, he said I don't know what you are talking about. I said remember yesterday when I gave you the kids Easter baskets and he said no! This was my punch in the stomach. My first with Bob, I knew then something was wrong. My son-in-law Nick went downstairs and found them just sitting all together in the back of the basement not hidden. Up to this time Bob was forgetful but just the normal stuff. I just thought he tuned me out, I was al...
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